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Dalai Lama on Sex: More trouble Than its Worth

November 29, 2008

The Dalai Lama, the exiled Tibetan spiritual and temporal leader, on Friday said sex spelt fleeting satisfaction and trouble later, while chastity offered a better life and “more freedom.”

“Sexual pressure, sexual desire, actually I think is short period satisfaction and often, that leads to more complication,” the Dalai Lama told reporters in a Lagos hotel, speaking in English without a translator.

He said conjugal life caused “too much ups and downs.

Exiled Tibetan spiritual leader, the Dalai Lama, gestures as ... 
Exiled Tibetan spiritual leader, the Dalai Lama, gestures as he speaks to the media after arriving in Prague November 29, 2008.REUTERS/David W Cerny (CZECH REPUBLIC)

“Naturally as a human being … some kind of desire for sex comes, but then you use human intelligence to make comprehension that those couples always full of trouble. And in some cases there is suicide, murder cases,” the Dalai Lama said.

He said the “consolation” in celibacy is that although “we miss something, but at the same time, compare whole life, it’s better, more independence, more freedom.”

Considered a Buddhist Master exempt from the religion’s wheel of death and reincarnation, the Dalai Lama waxed eloquent on the Buddhist credo of non-attachment.

“Too much attachment towards your children, towards your partner,” was “one of the obstacle or hindrance of peace of mind,” he said.

Revered by his followers as a god-king, the Dalai Lama arrived in Lagos on Friday on a three-day visit following an invitation from a foundation to attend a conference. He has made no political speeches in the west African country.

He leaves Friday night for the Czech Republic and then on to Brussels to address the European Parliament before heading to Poland, where he is due to meet with French President Nicolas Sarkozy.

The 73-year-old Nobel Peace laureate has been a mainstay on the diplomatic stage ever since he fled his native land for neighbouring India in 1959.

Still based in northern India, the Dalai Lama has increasingly been in the spotlight since protests in Tibet turned violent in March this year, just months before the Chinese capital Beijing hosted the Summer Olympic Games.

Regarded by his many supporters outside China as a visionary in the vein of Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King, the Dalai Lama was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1989 for his accent on non-violence to achieve change.

However, he is reviled by the Chinese government, which has branded him a “monster” and accused him of trying to split the nation.


Bush makes holiday calls to troops

December 24, 2007

By DEB RIECHMANN, Associated Press Writer

WASHINGTON – President Bush made Christmas Eve calls to 10 U.S. troops serving in Iraq, Afghanistan and other spots around the world, thanking them for their sacrifice and wishing them a happy holiday even though they’ll be far away from their families and friends.

The president made his calls Monday from the Camp David presidential retreat in the Maryland mountains, where he is spending Christmas. He spoke with members of the Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force and U.S. Coast Guard, including seven serving in Iraq.

White House press secretary Dana Perino said Bush knows it is difficult for the children of U.S. servicemen and women to understand why their fathers and mothers cannot be home ….

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We’ll Pay What it Costs: Ice Cream, Coffee, Achieving The Insurmountable and Other Thoughts on Life

August 6, 2007

By John E. Carey
Peace and Freedom
August 6, 2007

Ice Cream

My bride was recently gravely ill and I pulled out the stops to do everything I could for her. I brought her Mother’s homemade Vietnamese soup and my bride didn’t touch a drop.

I tried cookies and candy.

Nothing made her hungry or happy.

Finally I tried a certain high end ice cream brand. The exact product was “Cherry Garcia.”

She loved the expensive ice cream and couldn’t stop praising me, raving about the ice cream, and sneaking little scoops of the stuff.

Then she started to wonder, as she got better, why I had never introduced her to the “good stuff” ice cream until she became ill.

I told her if I lost her, God would have asked her questions. It might go something like this:

God:  “Did your husband love and care for you to his full ability?”

My wife would certainly answer in the affirmative.

Then God might say, “Did he buy for you Cherry Garcia ice cream?”

My wife would say no. She had never heard of it until she was ill.

Then God would inform her; “You got screwed Honey. He wasn’t as good a husband as he could have been.”

Now she isn’t sure about me and I fear she is addicted to this ice cream.

I was told by a friend she has to go to Vermont to a place called “Ben & Jerry’s” for rehab.  Does that sound right?

Spas, Coffee and Human Sacrifice

The NBC TODAY show had one of those invaluable “news” reports I relish, just this morning.

The topic was SPAs.

Here is the intro to the piece on the NBC TODAY Show web page complete with their own misuse of the word “their”:

“Imagine a week of facials, massages, gourmet meals, hikes, and Pilates classes. Sounds like a great way to spend the last days of summer, right? That’s the sound of a SPA getaway.

‘Vacation’ usually means hustling to catch planes, hassling with rental cars, and then squeezing in friends, family, and of course all the major sites. That’s why destination spas make so much sense. According to SPA Finder Inc., there [sic] database counts more than 15,000 spas in the United States.”

15,000 SPAs? That sounds like an extravagance to me.

Until you consider we have over 10,000 high end coffee houses in the U.S. And they are already springing up in places like China.

Many Americans will spend thousands of dollars on themselves in SPAs, hair salons and nail shops. Then on the way home they’ll buy a cappuccino for something going toward $5.00.

I am proud to say I don’t go to a “hair stylist.”  Instead I make a small donation to Pete the immigrant barber and he does the job for less than $10.00.

John Edwards: eat your heart out.

The bottom line is this: many Americans will pay whatever it takes to achieve their own few minutes of mental bliss.  God Bless ’em too!

But ask some of us to really make a sacrifice; and you may get that “deer in the headlights” stare.

I saw an Army G.I. interviewed on TV a few days ago. He reminded watchers that only about 1% of the U.S. population was involved in the war on terror, including in Iraq and Afghanistan.

He said many Americans slapped a “I support the troops” bumper sticker on their car and they were finished with the problem.

Achieving The Insurmountable

So I wonder sometimes: will the people of the United States ever again be able to achieve the likes of the landings on D-Day? Can present day America defeat a tyrant like Hitler? Do we have engineering successes in our future to rival man walking on the moon?

I am usually an optimist.

But the two most recent examples of “The Right Stuff” included a half-crazed astrounat wearing a diaper on her way to kill what she thought was her man’s girlfriend. The other was a report of drunken astronauts in space and in aircraft.

When I heard a pundit say what a hard and long “struggle” it would be to replace the Interstate 35W bridge which collapsed, I nearly gagged. We should be able to rebuild that bridge better and stronger in no time.

And as the news reader bemoaned “the decaying infrastructure in America,” I thought: we better get on with it and do it right.

And we, as a nation, had better take on some of the tough issues facing us like illegal immigration, the war against terror and the situation in Iraq and Afghanistan.


The Can’t-Do Nation
“The United States seems to have become the superpower that can’t tie its own shoelaces.”

What Americans spend on their pets:
“Pet Prowess” in America; Michael Vick to Coach at University of Beijing

Dog Rights in America versus Human Rights in Vietnam